I personally struggle to find my own playstyle. Going for strength / warrior seems to be the easiest to overpower opponents altho I prefer to play classes like Thief or Enchanter where I can max out charisma. I guess the reason is I am still working on unlocking gallery and most of that means being a sub. Problem with that is you are eventually going to max out 'red' skills like blowjob master, anal lover etc a this leads to absolutely random game overs (yesterday on ironman i was really far and all of a sudden I got a game over when i rejected buying food from merchant in random humanoid encounter) - disappointing.